Looking for help with WAW

[mza8]

Ok, you and your W separated a couple of months after my W and I. Seems like your W is much more mature to at least talk to you about your M and go to MC than my W at this point. I'm sorry to say it but my W is very immature with the way she handles things. She has never liked to deal with a problem head on.

My friends that I told today about my sitch have been awesome. So many of them offered their support. I had a few of them contact me and tell me about their similar sitchs. I had no idea some of them went through the same thing. They gave me some good advice...very similar to the advice given here. In every one of their sitchs, their Ws came back to at least try to work on the M. Some were successful and some were not. It helped give me hope that at least their Ws at least tried to work on the M after some time apart. Their Ws told them the same things like "we're done, it's too late, etc." It was an unbelievable day today with the outpouring of support from my friends. They all told me to remain patient and give my W some time. They all like my W and want to see us get back together. They were all shocked to hear the news.