I keep hearing two statstically based recommendations:

1) You should wait at least a year after a d before getting involved in a new R.

2) It takes 3-5 years after the end of a significant R before you can comfortably exist in a new one without the old one impinging.

Any comments?

From what point do the stats measure these things? From the bomb? From the point where the LBS gives up? From the final divorce decree?

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