Ok. So i sent H a text saying give me 5 reasons why you deserve to be at the birthing classes. Didnt expect a text back to be honest. And then I recieve one and it said.

"1.I'm the father 2. If I'm going to be at the birth and part of his life then I need to lear 3. It will be good for us to learn differnet things together 4. May help us get along 5. Bc I want to be there"

Of course i replied with how he needs to be there as my coach and take care of me, etc. and he agreed and said he wants to be there to help me not just baby.

And then said he wants to go register for baby thing together one night this week.

Now... What do I do? And How to I get the stregnth to go with him, be calm cool and collective AND not want anything more. I know I can do it while I am in his presence, its afterwards when i go home alone that I get weak.

Help!