No im not driving by his house. You don't know my h, how he spends money. He buys everyone expensive gifts so that they like him. even if he hardly knows them. Attorney said i should file because h could be dissipating assets and i could lose financially. You would not believe all of the stuff he was looking at on internet to buy for her and her kids. He is addicted to spending. another reason he left was because i don't buy things to make me happy, I try to find happiness in myself, he didn't like that i didn't shop.