yes-I was unsure about what you meant about the "missed opportunity!" Yikes-I don't know that I could handle hearing those reports from the kids yet wouldn't want to make them uncomfortable by telling them not to tell me...CW you are in a tough spot! I mean duh, of course you are, but with your kids being older they can tell you what happens with your H and OW! BARF!!!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004