Time for darkness.... (thread number 3)ears open

[james217]

Stop and think. If your W cannot even respect YOU why do you think she will respect YOUR children? You have gotten a very clear picture of how your W behaves so exposing your children to further hurt is confusing to me. Your children are so fragile right now and your W will do them NO GOOD at this time. I don't care if she begs or cries. Tough.

Just because your W 'demands' you do something doesn't mean you have to do it. Set boundaries and mean them. Any hurt your W causes your children this point forward is on you as you can stop the contact. Please do that. Your children need protection right now.

yep I know it that's why I'm angry. He had just been begging to talk to her and I hate to disappoint him. He had been upset and very sad about it. So when I saw her 2 saturdays ago and he called and asked to speak to her I didn't want to lie to him and say she wasn't there. They had a long lonng conversation and she told him how much she missed and loved him and would be in his life.

But whatever. This is really saddening to me. I really cannot understand how she can treat him like this. I would never DO SD8 this way. That was the whole point of the build a bear.

*sighs*

I think i'm really going to go cry because he was crying his head off and there's nothing I can do or say to make it better.

He wants to speak to her and I tried to console him but it's not working