Well, I just don't know what to think. Here we are a few days later, H is still here and things seem 'back to normal' which is that we are coexisting fairly peacefully.
At one point yesterday we were watching a movie, he sat next to me on the sofa and started to massage my feet. I got all teary, and when he asked me why said that it just hurt so much when he was nice to me, since I felt like he didn't really care. (I know, bad DB-ing, but at that point I just got overwhelmed). He got all grumpy and when I went up to bed he bedded down on the sofa.
However, 4am, I hear footsteps coming upstairs and he slides into bed next to me, doesn't say a word. This morning, didn't mention it. Did he forget from yesterday? Is he really that screwed up? I can only marvel at the MLC actions. First he's just all gung-ho to run out, and the next moment its like nothing ever happened.
Me - 38 Husband - 40 MLC! Together 12 years Married 11 years Still the love of my life Forever only lasted 10 years before his MLC and affair
