Settling

[awest1217]

I just read parts of your sitch and I am completely with you. My sitch is so similar to yours and I have wondered at times when DB just doesn't really work. I don't have any advice, but I completely understand where you are at from the H to your beliefs about D because I don't want a D and disagree with Ding, but there is a point where a person has to move on and not be attached to someone who does not want to fully be in the marriage. They just want you around for looks when it is convenient and that is it.

I am with you and hope you can find the answers that you need.