Husband left me 3 months pregnant...

[Jstar]

BD,

I know those frustrations of h not helping in such a pregnant state, throw working and a 2 year old in there and it would be me exactly.

he tried the friends thing, i wouldn't go for it. He just askes to see one of his children at this point so the last time he asked I said sure, he can take both kids. He came back with yeah when i show up it will be no i can't have them. i got kid ready anyways, texted him when they were ready to go, waited a bit, asked if he planned on showing up the kids were excited that he was coming to get them.(lie-i would never tell the kids he was coming since he bails out or just never shows up when he says he will) whole day passed he didn't visit or call or anything.

sorry to be hi jacking your thread: i've been home with no adult interaction for 2 months.

when i had h's truck for a few days(if you want to know how i got it, intersting story) i located documents for future use. that's what i've been spending my time on, compiling documentation to his illegal work status, h left his ssn card at my house with the stamp rate on it that to work verification via immigration required.

i have an letter with his name where he has jobs copy of ss card copied, keep copies at my work, deleted files on computer in case he gets sneaky, called being someone else making a complaint to get his employers curious.

is this bad?