Will LRT increase WS attachment to OM?

[Allen A]

Yes, but my point is that LMW needs to be careful of the response to their WS` anger.

The default response is to go gentler or back off entirely... during an AFFAIR, this is NOT constructive :

I don't think she liked my suggestions, which were not unfair, because she became a little angry. I think she thinks I'm trying to take advantage of her, but I really think she's worried about how she's going to support her OM, whom I don't tnink has a job.

LMW, IGNORE the anger, they WILL use that to manipulate you into being a doormat if they can.

I am NOT saying be impossible and beligerent back, but I am saying that if you are confident you are being fair, do NOT back down from the anger and do NOT mirror it... just IGNORE the TONE of what WS is saying and stick to your guns... WS will stop showing anger once they see it isn`t working.