Oh Mila, I am so sorry that you are going through this yet again.
I truly believe you going dark as possible with your H is the best thing for you to do. This will help you detach from his drama and he can get a real good taste of what it's like not to have you in his life. Do NOTHING for him on a personal level.
He still doesn't know what he wants and the ow is as wacky as he is.
