I'm so sorry, Mila.

I think drastically reducing contact with your H will help you a great deal. I know it has helped me. Let him feel your absence for a while while you rest and regroup. Good for you to take such good care of yourself!

Originally Posted By: Mila
I said why didn’t you say anything about this “unhappiness”, I first heard about it when I found out about the affair....6 months into it as a matter of fact.

This is my story as well. My H responded that he "didn't think it could be fixed." I don't know if the "it" was in reference to something about me or something about himself, as he didn't tell me what "it" was. Did your H give you an answer to your question?

Hugs to you, ((Mila)).


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Do you know that the harder thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same thing? Nothing that has meaning is easy. ~ The Weather Man