You know...even if you are RIGHT rysmom, you are your own worst enemy right now.
You're like chicken little and the sky is falling.
You say you are codendendant on him and don't know how to stop so you called him?
That is like saying Im fat, and I am so upset at being fat I ate a donut.
Umm and for the record Mr Bond is right...what are YOU doing to protect your house...he is being nice, he isn't coming out and calling you pathetic.
This could be YOUR wake up call.
The one were YOU take charge of your life instead of meekly living in the shadows of your husband, I am not saying get a divorce...I am saying get a backbone and take charge and some responsibility for your future.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK