you know,I went to an accidental dating event through meetup.com. I thought the event was something else based on what was described. But I decided to go along; throughout the mingling a couple of things happened: 1) I was pleased to see that other men were interested in me 2)I realized if I wanted to date, I could 3) I was not ready! But the point is that just by getting out there and seeing points 1 and 2, it really helped me to feel good about myself and start noticing if men were checking me out in my every day life.(I always try to look my best when out and about as well) It has shown me that when I am ready, and if I wanted to, I could find someone else! lol!
Last edited by newmama; 05/03/1009:35 PM.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
