Good for you Augtan, with the NC, and responding just with business tones.
Prepare for him not liking the new you and your aloofness. This is good for our exes to feel what it is like that we are not hanging on their ever whim.

I know we would love it to all work out but it's time for us to to focus our energy where it is reciprocated and appreciated, period.
If they can't at least cross the line to us then it's not worth all the heartache.

Try to stay strong. I have "almost" contacted her a couple of times but did not and felt much better the next day.

I would suggest you get another IM account and let your friends know. You ex can email you.
My ex and I used to Skype and IM and I started to expect it. That's when I started to get hurt that she didn't contact me. Now I don't ever IM or Skype her.

It's all part of detaching.
Even 7 year old want's me to get a nice girlfriend !!!!


Last edited by whitneypinch; 05/03/10 09:08 PM.
Me/W: 46/36
D7.6/S6
T/M: 7.5/6.5
Bomb 12/05/07
D final: 03/03/09