newmama, I understand how you feel about your H's reputation and how he's regarded at work. My H is very professional, excellent at his job, good with people and very likeable, funny and easy to talk to. (See how mean I am to him? ;)) I have a feeling he has NO idea what he might be doing to himself by cheating with an OW, especially if she's as young and immature as she appears to be from the photo I saw.


H 42
Me 47
DS 7
T 18
M 16
Bomb: 4/20/10
H leaves to live at Mom's: 4/30/20

My sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1990503#Post1990503