if he wants to go to support you, will that be how you will see it? i mean will his presence support you? if not, then he doesn't need to go! seriously-you can let him be involved after the birth. fact is, you are carrying his child, but he left you, and right now, you and your baby are one--your baby is part of your body. During your pregnancy, your H doesn't HAVE to be a part of anything even if he wants to be an involved dad! When your son is born, then your son will be separate from you and you can involve your H then. Just a thought.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
