Partner left after 9 yrs - 18months on, reunited !

[AliSuddenly]

Michelle, thanks for that and you're right - thats what he said too!
Julia, how are you now? I am following along your new life in Bangkok!!

Maria - what a good point. Yes, surreal being at the legendary band night, the scene of many failed and then succesful plots to see him and get back together (we met at band night the night before reconciling)..going there with Cher and G with the fear he would turn up with Helen.. so yes, full circle alright. Its amazing, he was SO unbothered she was there, certainly less than me, he didnt care to notice her and even forgot she was there he said (poor Helen). When they are done, they really are DONE. One for you to think about hey??

We are back where we were, before his Dad died. I wont say its perfect..but I am very very happy in his company and life is good...so why, oh why, do my eyes stray to good looking guys when we go out with friends? Is it that part of me resents that he got to go date someone else in the middle of our 11 year R?? Just have to suck that one up, as they say.

Its 14 years since we met (love at first sight for him).. I was going to talk about this in my speech at the wedding.