He's a nurse anesthesiologist and gives epidurals, etc. and knows more than i will learn about the birth etc. He has been in enough Labor and delivery rooms and knows about prenatal care having been a nurse for almost 10 years in a hospital. So he doesnt have to go to learn the medical aspect, it would be more for support, i guess for me. I dont want to take mom, i end of resenting her and getting angry at her bc... well just because!

H says he wants to go. But Why?

think i should ask him to give me reasons why he deserves to be there? other than bc he is the baby's father?