My W is currently ill. She ask if I can get her a drink or something to eat, should I say "You are very well capable of doing it yourself" or simply "NO." Why would my W or any woman for that matter want to be with a H who cannot care for them in their time of need?
Are you referring to her allergies?
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My W has terrible allergies. Every two months or so she gets this way. Starts off with sore throat and escalates...build sinus pressure and causes headaches then the meds causes stomach pains...
So as I always had I been doing my best to take care of her, when she allows.
I'm sorry, I don't see that as "her time of need," and I'm also referring to your descriptions of your interactions with her for the past 6 weeks or so.
In any event, I'll leave you alone, because I'm breaking one of my own DB philosophies and that is to only recommend the tougher approach when someone is stating they are UN-happy with their current, softer approach. You (and some of the others advising you) seem to think this is for the best, and even ol' hard-ass Allen himself thought it was -- for now, anyway -- and so I'll leave you be.
I do sincerely wish you well, I hope you know that, OIN.
