The fact is that in all of our cases, we have bonded with our Hs in some from. Marriage does that and having a baby makes the bond deeper. Detaching will just squash love but not eliminate it.

I went to 2 6 hour baby classes with WH during our NC. It was ok. We just were friendly to each other and only talked about S. I didn't contact him otherwise. You can follow Gatsby's suggestion. Or you can also try to go to one with him and then change your mind. I am pretty sure he can go to some on his own, right?

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004