I don't see it as cake eating, she is not seeing him, she talks with remorse about her affair, she has told him she needs space to figure this out. She is coming clean with their relationship. The lies and fog are diminishing every day. I will not be her friend if this is how we end. She knows that. I am giving her space, I am enjoying my life without her. The interactions we have are almost all kid related. She gets nothing physical from me. She knows where I stand and I will not be 2nd choice. I am giving her some time to really think this through without influence from me or him. I have some patience left for "us". But am fully prepared to move on without her.
