TD, It is so refreshing to see that when you are talking to the kids they understand that this is not a WE decision. I will soon be in your position. Going to D Mediator on Wed. for initial meeting. This is the last thing I am interested in doing and when the sh*t hits (when the kids find out what is going on) I want to be confident in letting them know that this is NOT a joint decision. W wants me to use WE in conversations with the kids.
About this weekend, we are only human. Sometimes we say things that we wish we hadn't. Oh well, its out there. Nothing to do but carry on as best we can and continue to DB.
