Hi, doodles, a post you made under LRT caught my eye so I just read a lot of your thread. Call me jaded, but could your boyfriend be dating his mistress again? Forgive me if I am jumping to conclusions!

Since you are not in a serious relationship with him or marriage, there is little to lose by NC and 180. Keep it up! This relationship could just be your healing rebound so to speak...

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004