Hi CL, less thinking, more doing, its simple.I remember your wife didn't like being introduced as your wife or someone asked you if she was and it caused you problems, did that happen with this new couple? Remember all couples have problems to some degree,don't worry what they will think of yours,thats just looking for problems! Whilst your on a roll can we set a date for when you will deal with the bedroom problem, just be our secret, no pressure! OK then, I take it that will be a no-lol but stay on track or I just might have to come looking for you!