DLS I hope you don't mind me saying this but I can see my WH going through exactly what you described in regard to career and I really hope OW does as you guess when D is final!
It isn't that I want my WH to suffer; it's that I want him to really decide for himself, not bc OW is pressuring him, if he wants to lose his reputation (he is highly regarded at work not just for his job but the person he was- I have intel that tells me he has not told anyone what is going on). Also I hope that this last resort change from him coming over to his house to see his son and talk to me will make an impact. Do you think so?
Baby doll, your H surprised you by doing this, right? Therefore, you don't know what else he is capable of doing-meaning he very well could come back! Do you see what I mean?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
