My H told me once that he thought he OWED it to the OW to make things work with her since he was one reason her own marriage couldnt be fixed. That had some to do of why he kept going back even after she would dump him, then change her mind.
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10