Ok so it was a good weekend. W went away for Fri and Sat. I went out with an old friend of mine. Has been around for 15+ years that me and W have been together. So we had a long (6 hr) talk about what was going on. His W is has been friends with my W since they were 5 years old and friends with me since W and I got together. So they have a lot of knowledge and a fresh perspective on what was going on. The consensus is that my W just does not want to grow up. She wants to have no responsibility and be "free" to do as she pleases. Therefore, she sees our marriage and S as weighing her down. She keeps telling me that she does not like coming home to the house, even if she knows I will not be there. This is because she sees the responsibility of taking care of the house and what it represents(marriage and family that she has responsibility in) It does not help that a bunch of her friends are either divorced or getting divorced and telling her how free they feel now. So the question of the day is how do I deal with the fact that she wants to be 4 years old and no responsibilities. I can confirm that she has even told me that is how she feels, she said this years ago, I just thought it was a phase. Anybody have any idea what to do now?
