Im sorry you didnt figure it out until it was too late. unfortunatly I think my H may be in the same boat and will go through the same journey. i dont think he will ever change his mind. He is really set on being apart. Sees no reconciliation, no point in us. He still says, I dont love you anymore, have no feelings for you.
i think when you are at a low point in your life, there is nothing anyone else could say or do to make you rethink things or change your course of actions. Look at me... every one tells me to get over it, move on, forget H, he is not coming back, stop dwelling on your M to him, he is not here, do this alone... and yet I am on this forum hoping to get stregnth to figure it al out.
