They are equally addicted to each other. She breaks it off and can't stay away from him and he is too weak to resist her when she contacts him again. And I do deserve better.
Oh Mila....I feel for you so much. This quote sounds like something I said about my H. My H and the OW broke up SOO many times! Sometimes he would break it off and sometimes she would do the breaking up. It was like they couldnt stay away from each other...just like a drug. I believe that your H is fighting with himself in his head. He doesnt know what to do. He just wants to be happy. My H told me this. Once when the OW wanted him back, I listened to my H go on and on about the fact he didnt know what to do. I could see him struggle, and I would always know that the OW would win until she was out of the pic. Everytime she did. I have a feeling if your H goes back with the OW, he will still not be happy, because really it has little to do with you or the OW. He has to fix himself first. I wish I could tell you to be patient and wait it out if you want your Marriage to work, but that is up to you. Looking back at my sitch, Im glad I did wait. The OW is not even friends with my H anymore. Im hoping though that your H is stronger than mine, and hopefully he will tell the OW that he isnt interested in her anymore. Just keep being you. Im so sorry this is happening to you, but I know how hard it is. I think I went through it a couple of dozen times....probably shouldnt have, but I had to just to get where I am now.
(((HUGS)))
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
