DLS, I agree that there are parts of DB that just do not suit us. Hardest part is that we both feel like we have a deadline, when the baby is born. i think he should wake up and come around to opening his heart, and H thinks I need to work on stop loving him to accept him in my life to have the baby together.
H is stuck on stupid. Unfortunately i think that nothing anyone says and no one could make him get out of it. Maybe this is one of this things people need to go through even if it hurts him more. in the meanwhile he will have damaged every relationship in his life especially between him and me. Sometimes I can see H and I in 10 years, and H having lived with the regret of his mistake, and telling me he was scared and thought about coming bck, but it was easier to keep walking away. He will live with his decision even if it doesnt make him happy.
