I have told H when at times, how the divorce will affect him. He seems to be okay with it. I asked hm once what happens if he regrets his decision or is unhappy when its all too late, and he answers that he wll have to live with his mistake. this is very much my H.

I am sorry but being told I dont love you anymore and nothing to back it up makes it entirely impossible for my heart to understand this and say, ok then, a divorce seems like the next step.

H thinks I should put my own feelings aside and be ablet to allow him in my lif and be there for the pregnancy and birth etc. meanwhile, did he put his feelings aside to go to counseling for this baby? to see what if?