Husband left me 3 months pregnant...

[newmama]

DLS, telling her H how much pain he will cause won't cause him to come around- didn't you say he won't realize the pain until later-that it will hit him after?

And you also suggest she be the warm wife and friend-that is cake eating in a way.

I hope I am not coming across in a rude way- I can tell that you care and want BD to reunite with her H- but if you read others' sitches where they told their H all that stuff, it didn't make an impression.