What if he won't stop cheating?

[june72]

I think, like above, you make it about you. "I can no longer continue a relationship where I am lied too. I know about the continued contact with OW".

But what will your consequence be? Fileing for D, moving out, filing for S, temporary staying at a friends house?

He NEEDS to feel consquences b/c why else would he change.

Do you have children. I have a totally different stance on people cheating b4 even having kids. I think it goes to show that they have low character. Even when the marriage is not stressed by kids they decide it's "too diffcult" to handle.

I say- no kids it is easier to have a fresh start and move on. Rather than deal with his nonsense.


You would like to be with him, you don't need to be with him. Let him really realize that.