Husband left me 3 months pregnant...

[newmama]

Daddy I know you mean well but it won't work. I don't think BD should send it.

Baby doll, of course you aren't going to shut these feelings off about your H! But believe it or not, to help you get into baby mode, the shower really helps!

I am going to be honest and I hope nobody judges me. But once WH actually left, I was resentful of being pregnant and the baby. I was not excited, not looking forward to it, and wondered what would happen if I just handed S over to WH and said "here you go! You and your whore can raise him!" OF COURSE THAT CHANGED around the time I had my shower, in the middle of May.Seeing all the baby stuff and hearing everyone talk about him (my baby) really helped me to get back on track and start to bond with him. WH left at the end of March. So I had a good 6 weeks where I didn't harm myself or the baby but just had "blah" feelings about the baby. Like I said, those feelings went away! But I am being honest about how this situation made me feel.