Wow. Your H is so scared! I agree with Gatsby; say ok. And then do whatever you feel like from this point forward.
It is exciting to hear your daughter is so close to meeting you!!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004