I don't feel secure closing out the joint until the line of credit payment goes through, which should be early this week.
The mortgage gets withdrawn towards the end of the month, so if I close the account after this week, the closing should be done and the mortgage re-set to me.
What's left?
the closing. Turns out we don't have to be in the same room at the same time, so that's good.
going thru the workshop and re-setting it; see what he left behind for me.
each of us sign the "we divided stuff up OK" doc.
and--as you said, Whatnow, figuring out what I want to do with my life. I liked my life as it was, too! Weekends are still the hardest. I am trying to back off my friends. Trying to think of projects like painting the bathroom,fixing the shelves in my closet (the whole thing collapsed!), of course lots of house cleaning.
But, yeah, jeezum, those Sunday mornings that used to be either lazy or shared chores (laundry for me, lawn mowing for him) or out on a ride with our friends...if I could outlaw Sundays for the next 6 months or so, that would be good.
