Should I Tell Her to Move On???

[gr8 day 2B alive]

Gman,

I found out through a mutual friend this past weekend. Even though it was confirmed I was at all surprised. I was going to wait until I retuened from my vacation to tell her but what's the difference. She has obviously checked out and has been since she started hanging around this new friend.

Funny thing now. I joined match.com to meet some new lady friends and guess who showed up? Her friend. Wow, I hope she sees me on there and tells W.

My W also told our friend that she doesn't think I would ever want to find someone else that I would just remain single forever.

I didn't confront W on this b/c I don't want to betray our mutual friends trust.

I did email W saying we should meet sooner than later to discuss agreement. I also added this:
PS. I know excatly all the feelings you have had over this past year. I have felt them too now.

Meaning I have become the WAS. Life is too short to be playing these high school games.If you can't make a decision in 9 months time then it seems things won't ever happen.

The sad thing is that altough in her mind she tried to work on M last year but I didn't get "it", she knows darn well I have tried and the past 9 months andhas not wanted anything to do with R.

I have accepted this and will move on.

I could save my M but I gave it my all. This place has helped me address my wrong doing in my M and has provided me with the strength and courage to move forward.

I'll keep updating what transpires with W.

waht do think about confronting W about the hook up. If I say anything I would asked our mutual friend first.