The 'apparently' is based on comments from W about needing to end EA with OM. Can I trust her? Probably not. Certainly do not trust OM. In the trust but verify mode with W.

H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012