She told me there cannot be an affair since it is already over. I told here we are still H and W. She told me it does not matter. ... I did get her to put the remaining money in our joint account. I will be taking the car for work too. She was very unhappy today. Oh, well. At least she did the dishes for the first time in a long time. Lucky me!
LSG, is it possible that it is over? Her words sound like an admission, but also a conclusion. Unless you have a new fact to confront her with, I would suggest that you focus on the goal rather than the pain. Letting her know that trust isn't there yet but you hope it will be is a goal. Saying, 'it's your fault' type comments are true, but that is pain and won't resolve the ticket issue. I think, pain that big should be expressed on its own (not while trying to explain/discuss an issue)
