Last night wife and I were arguing about the tickets to Vegas. She was angry because I put them away somewhere. I told her that without the tickets no one is going. She said, "shouldn't we let the kids decide. I told her it is not up to a 4 and 8 year old to decide to go or not. It is up to their parents to make those decisions, and they would not go.
She said a bunch of things I do not remember. I told her that a real man does not cheat on his W like the OM is doing, and that she is doing the same thing. She told me there cannot be an affair since it is already over. I told here we are still H and W. She told me it does not matter. That is the craziest BS I think that I have ever heard even on this forum, and I have read them all. I had to laugh at what she said which just made her more angry. I find it so funny.
Tonight she found out that I took the passports for me and the kids. She said, "you are insecure." I told her look what she has done with the A and more recently only putting a portion of her pay in the joint account. I said, "I was not insecure, but that I was protecting the family." She did not say another word about it.
We did a puzzle with the kids today and got a long fairly well, until her trip to Costco that lasted for 5 hours. She said she went to Target too. I am sure the OM was there with her. What a real man. Hahaha!!!
I did get her to put the remaining money in our joint account. I will be taking the car for work too. She was very unhappy today. Oh, well. At least she did the dishes for the first time in a long time. Lucky me!
Being cheated on will make most people insecure. Don't sweat it. Protect your family and take care of yourself.
