Thanks everyone for the responses. Wow lots of posts since Friday night.
Yes, I agree. Get the papers signed. Clear the path for the future, whatever it may be.
Weekend with the boys. Put up a basketball hoop. They'd been asking for one (the last one was broken in a winter storm). Other than that really took care of the regular things around here - groceries, laundry, etc.
Lonely tonight, but the desire to call STBXW is pretty minimal. I've talked / FB chatted with TM a good deal recently, and there's a lot I could say here about it I guess, but the upshot is "tread carefully" is where I am with it.
Don't know, lots going on in my head but not a lot to say about it I guess. Maybe that's good, starting to see "it is what it is" vs. expressing all the mind chatter.
OK I've been sitting here for awhile just thinking. Going to wrap it up. Have a good Monday everyone.
May as well keep quiet with it. So you've lost desire for the STBXW?