Husband left me 3 months pregnant...

[newmama]

DaddyLS, I wish you were right! Sorry BD to t/j but I am pretty sure that is how I have been acting toward my WH! And yet it hasn't caused him to choose me over the OW!

The act he is doing is based off of selfishness, and it cannot last. When you break a house up there is going to be pain in it for him, that he doesn't realize. It won't hit him till later. It hurts like hell, and it NEVER goes away.

I guess in my sitch, the above hasn't happened to my WH yet and it will take divorce for him to get it.

I guess for Babydoll, since the divorce hasn't started rolling yet, she can still take the steps you suggest. I kind of see it as the last resort versus the no contact last resort that is described in DB. But how will her H recognize the pain he has caused before his daughter is born?