Flowmom - thanks for stopping by. They are equally addicted to each other. She breaks it off and can't stay away from him and he is too weak to resist her when she contacts him again. And I do deserve better. That's why I didn't want him to move back right away when he wanted to R...I wanted to be sure that I'm not his option B again.
I survived the B-Day dinner at his dad's. Actually I managed to be upbeat, very pleasant to H and had a good time with the family. H was very nice to me, lots of sweet smiles directed my way and in the car we were laughing and reminiscing about our past adventures. He leaned over to smell my perfume and said "that's so nice I remember this". He told me that I look great and that he really likes my bracelet and my earrings.
At the dinner table H was kind of nostalgic and emotional, but that could be because of his Dad's illness and all the talk about it.
All night H looked that he was enjoying my company. I in turn was really sweet to him, called him sweetie few times (nobody in the family knows what's going on with us) even touched his arm once or twice. When we were saying good night I leaned over and gave him a goodnight kiss...after all I'm still under the assumption that he wants to reconcile...he never said otherwise.
He didn't tell me anything about his contact with OW or gave any indication that anything changed....the opposite, he was super nice to me.....
I know that he is communicating with her and that she is planning to leave her H. She wouldn't be doing that if my H wasn't on board with it.
To sum it up - I have a gut feeling that he is going through some internal struggle...maybe questioning if he really wants to do this again. His addiction to OW will likely win
I'm still processing the new developments and observing what happens next before I make my next move.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
