My mom met with H today. She didnt tell me, He did! He called before they met just to say so. She was angry and felt that H is not being responsible for anything. Not me, the baby, the house, the car, any of our responsibilities (bad side of WAS moving out, and me staying in the house).
Mom said she did most of the talking as H stuck to his story and he "doesnt know" why he left, but he doesnt love me anymroe. She said saying "I dont know" is saying I dont care to tell you, I dont think i owe you an answer. Go Mom! I was really angry with her for going to meet with him! Still am... Although she is a smart cookie, doesnt get as emotional as I do. (H and mom always got along really well, they were always very close).
He basically turned it all around on me and said he would love to be involved with EVERY baby step along the way, but every time he mentions something regarding baby, I want me and him to reconcile! and that I push him out!
UUGGgghhhHHHHHH!!!!!!
Said he doesnt want to argue and avoids my calls and texts (until its convenient for him to contact me or impromptu visits) because he was upset when I started having contractions!
She basically went and said if you told her why you left, no matter how much it hurts, then she could grasp something and MOVE ON!!!! He still didnt care.
Mom said they hugged bye.
I was irate! How dare they!
What did she get out of it... NOTHING!!! and H??? NOTHING!!! But more underserved attention.
