the two posts above are the constant two battling voices in my head!
"I believe in DBing you're not meant to do anything that helps the D along...let him work hard for your sig? just an idea?"
you are so right... thanks for kicking me into perspective! I told H when I was served I wasnt signing bc I didnt accept/want/warrant/believe in Divorce! Well, lets see how long this will last!
When I told H I signed the papers, his reaction was "well it doesnt mean you are going to do anything with them"
