My WAW - Chat/Text Msg affair with her ex

[Dan1977]

Well I'm starting to be convinced that my wife is a compulsive liar. We went out on our date Saturday night, had a nice dinner and drinks and talked quite a bit. She told me how talking to her ex was wrong and she's done with it. I want to believe my wife so bad, but she just keeps lying to me. The prepaid phone texting started up again when the OM texted her at 4am last night, and she promptly replied back and forth with him all day today. Every chance she gets away from me she is texting this jack ass. My wife is so goddam addicted to talking to this guy I don't even know what to do. What I hate is she walks around here like nothing is going on, after she said she's done talking to him and I know differently. I've screwed up over and over when I confront her, so I guess I just watch it happen. I hate being lied to like this. I hate that my children's mother is such a damn liar now.

When I read Divorce Remedy, it was stated quite often that affairs only 6 months. But what about affairs where the spouse won't quit talking to OM? I feel like I'm constantly on trial and if we have any kind of disagreement, then it makes her want to go talk to this guy more and more.