FM-loved your outfit! And your mom sounds like a kick! I relate to the surreal feeling and question of "How did I end up here?" but the next question to ask ourselves (everyone in their sitches) is "Where do I want to go?" I think...but should leave the deep thinking to you, FM, because you are so good at it!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004