Your best approach is to agree with the divorce and get aggressive and get all you can while she wants out so bad.
Telling her you don't want it is NOT WORKING. It makes her want it more.
this is one piece of advice i've heard of before. but it is also one that i am the most afraid of.
i could say "yeah, you're right .. let's just get on with the big D". i really do fear that h will push it through. not only that, but if it does go through .. he'll say that i wanted it.
