W still wants separation, need to DB more

[OfficerInNeed]

Lotus,
You are right, I failed to do as you suggested. I find myself making these smart remarks often. I will speak with her on this matter as you recommended. The thing was and is, for the past 3 weeks there has been a shift, I feel like it a positive one and I don't want to ruin it by triggering something in her. I fell like a jerk fir handling it the way I did up till this point.

PDT,
For 10 years my W has jumped at my command. In the past year before our sitch it got really bad, where the acts of service were no longer reciprocated. She did for herself and still did for me. Don't get me wrong, I did NOT command her to do anything, she did nearly everything on her own but always in my favor. I remember the days where I would ask her to grab me something or go get this or that at least 10 times in a hours time, she never complained once. Here now she ask me to do something for her in a very PLEASANT tone, because she is not feeling well, I have absolutely no problem doing it.